Teresa Ortiz

The Treasures of Friendship and What it Means to Be a Friend (Friendship Quotes)



Posted: Sunday, June 14, 2009

by Teresa Ortiz
Freelance writer/Speaker



FRIEND = A person whom one knows well and is fond of.



FRIENDSHIP = An attachment between friends.



We are all familiar with these terms. Nevertheless, what does friendship look like?  Is it a relative of Love in that it is not only a noun but an adjective as well?



A few days ago, my best friend had a birthday. With my son's upcoming graduation and family coming in from out of town, I completely forgot to put a card in the mail to her. So I figured the next best thing was to pen these thoughts to let her know that she is the definition of a true friend whose actions always speak louder than words – even if I still can't get her to drive all the way to Oregon to see me….



Friendship means:



Passing notes in class.
Giving your friend a handmade birthday hat with a big pompom at the top.
Giving your friend bags full of brand new clothes when she can't afford any.
Driving around town with a big purple bunny sticking out of the sunroof.
Driving to the mountains to play in the snow.
Putting up with extreme forgetfulness.
Answering the phone late at night to listen to the ranting of a crazy person.
Hugging in silence when there are no words.
Driving to Vegas on whim to witness a wedding.
Providing a place for your friends to live when life's surprises hit.
Loving your friend's children like they are your own.
Going grocery shopping and splitting the bill.
Taking trips together and creating memories.
Praying for one another.
Being able to Laugh at each other.
Respecting each other's differences.
Watching each other's babies become young adults.
Growing old together no matter the distance between the two.



(Thank you for all of the above - and the honeybuns too)

Friendship quotes:



A Friend loves at all times – Proverbs 17:17
One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives - Euripides
In a friend you find a second self - Isabelle Norton
You only meet your once in a lifetime friend - once in a lifetime - from Little Rascals



…and my personal favorite,

If you live to be 100, I hope to be 100 minus 1day so I never have to live without you - Winnie the Pooh

Finally, we can't have a story about friendship without including Lucy and Ethel….



 
Have you told your friends how much you appreciate them lately?
 
**Dedicated to Patti Maddox - my treasure, my friend. Happy Birthday!**
 
 
 
(C) Teresa Ortiz
 
 

 

Teresa is an author, a speaker, and the Editor-in-Chief for RMS1437 Publishing. She has been married for 26 years and has three grown children. Her greatest joy is leading others closer to Christ through practical study of the word of God. She prefers using the lighter things in life and a good laugh to make her point, but realizes the darker and deeper things of life must also be addressed. For more information on her available books, or speaking engagements, visit www.teresaortiz.com.
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» left by Jane Bullard
2 years 345 days ago.
Dear Teresa - this was a wonderful way to honor a friend's birthday. Loved your quotes (loved that you included  Pooh) and the Lucy-Ethel video. Your friend surely knows that you are a caring friend.  And many others get to enjoy these reminders about friendship.
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 345 days ago.
188 fans.
Hi Jane, how are you? So good to hear from you.  Thanks for reading and the leaving a sweet comment.  I am truly blessed.  I love Lucy is my daughter's all-time favorite show and it has rubbed of on me, so I had to include it :-)
 
Blessings to you dear friend! Teresa
» left by Michelle Mackin
2 years 345 days ago.
Buatiful article and quotes. I know that your friend Patti will enjoy this article almost as much as the fried you are to her. What a blessing it is to have a friend like you.
 
Love, hugs and blessings,
 
Michelle
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 345 days ago.
188 fans.
Hi Michelle! How are you doing these days?
 
Thanks for the kind words.  We are truly blessed by the friends God gives us, aren't we :-)  I am blessed by you :-)
 
Lots of love to you! Teresa
 
 
» left by Michelle Mackin 2 years 344 days ago.
Thanks for asking Teresa,
 
I am just doing these days. Also getting ready for a visit from my Mom! YEAH!!! :-)
 
Love, husgs and blessings always,
Michelle
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 343 days ago.
188 fans.
I'm praying. Have a fantastic visit with mom! We will be in the same state soon :-)
» left by Ronyae
2 years 345 days ago.
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Teresa,
 
This is great! A true ter-jerker. Thanks for sharing the true meaning of a friend, and your friend is blessed and lucky to have you; she should make a way to visit Oregon!
 
Stay Blessed
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 345 days ago.
188 fans.
Hi Ronyae :-) 
 
I am glad you like it.  She and her family have been here a few times :-)  They fly - the driving thing is a long standing joke between our families because they hate to drive and we love to drive.  We keep telling them they would enjoy the 16 hour drive to Oregon, but they don't believe us :-)
 
It is important to stop and recognize our friends, it's too easy to take them for granted, but life is short and every day is a gift.  Blessings to you! Teresa
» left by Ronyae 2 years 345 days ago.
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Amen to that, T!
Stay Blessed
» left by P.Maddox
from Cali
2 years 344 days ago.
Thank you my dear friend. It didn't even compare to a Hallmark card. It was way better!! I love you!
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 344 days ago.
188 fans.
You are welcome. As you know the list is really a whole lot longer :-)
» left by Ken McCreless
2 years 344 days ago.
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Hi Sis!
 
Great article. I would bet money that you are an amazing friend. You certainly are a mega-bonus to us folks here at the"Warp."
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 344 days ago.
188 fans.
Hi Ken, thank you very much.  I would like to think that I am a good friend to others. But I gotta say, I can be a pain in the rear with my forgetfulness and strong and opinionated personality. But I am also loyal, faithful, honest, and will always be available.
 
I am blessed by you and my friends on the warp.  Blessings to you bro! T
» left by Susan Thom
2 years 344 days ago.
179 fans.
hi t,
 
i don't think there's anyone better than a true friend. we may live with a spouse, and love them to death, but when they get a little crotchedy=who ya gonna tell? your friend.
 
i've been blessed with a few very good friends, and i' too, am grateful.
 
thanks for sharing,
 
my best,
 
sue
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 344 days ago.
188 fans.
hahaha! You are so right. :-)
 
I thought of you when I wrote this because I remember you telling me about your bestest buddy and if I remember right, her name is Patti as well (?)
 
Thank you for being a faithful friend! Blessings, t
» left by Nenita Wells
2 years 343 days ago.
298 fans.
Hi Teresa.
 
It is beautiful! Brilliant. First Sunday in August is Friendship Day, true friends are true friends every day of the year. LOL. Good write. Thanks for sharing.
 
Best regards,
 
Nenita
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 342 days ago.
188 fans.
Hi Nenita,
 
Thanks for the great comment :-)  I was wondering when friendship day is, thanks for letting me know.  But you are right, everyday should be friendship day.
 
Blessings to you, my sweet - smiling friend.
 
Teresa
» left by Nenita Wells from Providence, RI 2 years 342 days ago.
Hi Teresa.
"One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives"...i loved this quote.
I am delighted and honored to become a friend of yours. It is a blessing.
May your day be filled with sunshine and laughter my sweet, smiling friend.
Nenita
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 342 days ago.
188 fans.
Likewise :-)
» left by Jean Horst
2 years 341 days ago.
178 fans.
Thanks for this Teresa! It reminded me of some friends I need to contact!
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 341 days ago.
188 fans.
Hi Jean, nice to hear from you. :-)
 
I am glad this helped you out. I made a few calls after I wrote this to some other friends.  It's way to easy to let too much time go by.  Have a wonderful weeken! Many blessings to you! Teresa
» left by Lorrie Davids
2 years 340 days ago.
96 fans.
Good article, Teresa. I am blessed to count you as my friend! God bless you!
» left by Teresa Ortiz 2 years 340 days ago.
188 fans.
Thanks Lorrie, likewise :-)
 
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